Ladies are you aware that there are amazing gems out there in the form of a 2 legged non hairy generous men, who know how to treat a lady. The only blurp in this couple I know is that they live 5 hours apart and he does not have a land line. So the communication in between visits is too infrequent for my girlfriend. It will be the second time that they will have met. Ladies this guy actually treats his date to all the meals which is a rarity these days, especially if you are over 45 single, intelligent, college educated, considerate. My girlfriend dated and was looking for a match online here were her findings. She found all the men she dated to be:

1. cheap. The men expected my girlfriend to foot the bill. I mean these guys had a job, one was a personal trainer and earned $75 an hour. But because in the city where I live, there are 1 guy for every 8 women, many gay guys that live in this city. I know nowadays it is politically correct to split the bill. But there are still men out there like this guy I am refering to who will remain a mystery man. I don't want my girlfriend to get competition. Because he is really a gem. On the weekend they were together he treated her to all the meals. He is not ugly, he is in shape, he has a sense of humor.
2. Uninteresting, all her dates did was talk about themselves
3. Not very clean. When my girlfriend was invited to his place, he had dirty smelly socks hanging on every door frame and just because my friend was repusled by that, and did not bed him the first night, he asked if she was a lesbiano.
4. TOO MANY other negative traits to list here.

Ladies if you are looking for a high quality man

You won't find him on matchmaker, or any other dating agencies on line. You will either bump into them or will be introduced to him via a friend. Just think it is so easy to pay $50 to join a dating website. Many guys are looking for a good time and hoping that the lady will be desparate enough to treat him like a gigalo and expected to be treated for shows and dinners. I am sure that there are high quality guys out there that resemble George in Seinfield. But these guys are guys that women would not take a second look at. But the know how to treat a lady like a lady, I don't care that it is the 20th century, I still think it is the guys job to treat for meals in the courting process. For the guys that are cheap and disagree, perhaps buy a $10000 doll and you will never have to take her out or treat her to any thing.

Tip of the week

remember those interviews Oprah had with guys living in Alaska, it is true you would be better off finding a guy who does not own a cellphone, have a facebook account, buy at least have a land line where you both can explore nature together. There are good quality guys out there but not the ones living in big cities who are jaded and so egotistical that he can not stop talking about himself.

There is hope if you own an internet marketing business, back ladies and move to a smaller community where there are plenty of guys who still have old fashion values.

I invite you to comment on my blog entry. If you have a bone to pick with me. Please let me know, thank you for listening to me rant. By the way, I have been in therapy for over 8 years and is still learning the skills I need to be a good partner to my partner. It takes commitment and I am so lucky I have this person in my life, in fact I pour this person a cup of tea each morning and thank the gods that they are in my life.